[release-branch.go1.21] cmd/link: disable DWARF by default in c-shared mode on darwin

[release-branch.go1.21] cmd/link: disable DWARF by default in c-shared mode on darwin

[This is a (manual) backport of CL 527415 to Go 1.21.]

Currently, linking a Go c-shared object with C code using Apple's
new linker, it fails with

% cc a.c go.so
ld: segment '__DWARF' filesize exceeds vmsize in 'go.so'

Apple's new linker has more checks for unmapped segments. It is
very hard to make it accept a Mach-O shared object with an
additional DWARF segment.

We may want to stop combinding DWARF into the shared object (see
also #62577). For now, disable DWARF by default in c-shared mode
on darwin.

Updates #61229.
For #62598.

Change-Id: I525987b7fe1a4e64571327cb4696f98cc7b419a1
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/527816
Reviewed-by: Than McIntosh <thanm@google.com>
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