cmd/compile/internal/syntax: accept "~" and "|" interface elements

cmd/compile/internal/syntax: accept "~" and "|" interface elements

Type lists continue to be accepted as before.

While at it, print missing filenames in error tests
(which uses an ad-hoc position representation).

Change-Id: I933b3acbc9cf1985ad8f70f6b206e3a1dbd64d1e
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/go/+/307371
Trust: Robert Griesemer <gri@golang.org>
Run-TryBot: Robert Griesemer <gri@golang.org>
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Reviewed-by: Robert Findley <rfindley@google.com>